Tuesday, June 05, 2012

Post-Graduate L.I.F.E

Everyone asked me why I want to spend my life again in boring lectures and drooling over an assignment for 2 years instead of earning money?? 

Everyone: Well, you could have earned more money instead of wasting your time in grad school.. 

Me: Whatever!! I don't need that money! 

Here are the expected answers that people or academicians would like to hear:

1) I want to learn new skills and develop my knowledge..

2) I want to be a smart person..

3) I want to use my skills and develop a system..

4) I want to get a good job and get a good salary..

5) My parents told me to do so..

Come on!! Everyone is hearing the same reasons again why they want to go to grad school.. If that's not the reason, why do I want to go to grad school?? 

1) Because I am stupid and don't know anything!! Didn't learnt a single thing when I was still doing undergrad!!

2) Spending my time in the monastery (University) reading incomprehensible sacred text (Journal articles).. Because I really miss it!! 

3) I need time to get some inspiration!! 

4) I want to go partying again as a student!! Silly reason but that's what I thought of doing!! 

Note: It turns out that praying in Perth requires people to go through security and 'immigration' checks.. they have to scan your passport or ID before they let you in.. Some clubs even requires you to scan your fingerprint.. Very similar to going through the US immigration clearance.. SO I don't party anymore!!

5) Lastly, I want to be a kid again!!

Again!! everyone will ask me again, why the hell do I want to go to Grad School with such silly reasons!!  Read again and think deeply about it..

After one semester in the postgrad classes.. What useful lessons and skills have I learnt so far??

1) Connections (not brains) are important for group work.. you need to know the best person to get good grades.. No point having great ideas if you can't speak up.. that's for my case!! 

2) Reading journal articles actually helps to improve your reading skills!! Business books in the bookshops are reading for babies, that's the comparison!! 

3) Postgraduate classes requires discipline, patience and perseverance.. That's what you need to succeed in your everyday life!!

4) You just can't get what you want!! even after paying for it!! (Applies to all full fee-paying international students) 

5) People who are good at talking doesn't mean that they are smart!! 

Ok!! Thanks for reading my blog!! This is just to start my writing habits again!! 









Saturday, December 05, 2009

Kalgoorlie - Life in the Outback!!

I love all things that is unusual and strange. Especially to places where its not known to many people. One of my dream destination is going to the city called Ouagadougou (Burkina Faso), heard of that place before?? Perhaps, thats the very thing that makes me a freak!! Going to Kalgoorlie is probably one of the most randoms things I ever done. Probably not your usual tourist destination.

We took the Transwa Prospector train for an arduous 7 hours journey. Thank God that the seats are comfortable with plenty of leg spaces. The train itself is a tourist attraction. We passed through different landscapes ranging from the wheatbelts to outback forests. During the trip, the soil in the ground changes from brown (Perth) to red when the train reaches Kalgoorlie.

All of us living in Perth are blessed with clean and well-maintained streets. After travelling 7 hours by train from Perth, you will be greeted with flies and really unclean taxis. My first trip to the hotel from Kalgoorlie is riding a really dirty cab. When I sit down on the furry chair, something watery touched my t-shirt. I am wondering what is the 'watery thing'. Come on, Australia is supposed to be a 1st world country!!

I reached the hotel, a 'character' hotel which is supposedly to be President Hoover's (USA) favorite hotel. The word 'character' is actually a pleasant way to say an old property in Australia. The hotel is at least a century old and looks pretty haunted to me. I can hear drilling noises and the door is moving at certain times. Could it be the restless spirits of fallen miners lurking inside? It is called located right in the middle of the city. Historical building aficionados would definitely love this place. There is a big and elaborate mirror donated by President Hoover near the reception.

The 1st day is searching for a car to travel around the area the next day while being furiously attacked by flies. The temperature was around 30C during that day and it was stifling hot. However, our adventure looking for car was fruitless because they did not accept Indonesian license. They only accept International Driving License. So we ended up booking a tour for the next day. Really wish we got a car so that we can travel to Coolgardie, a nearby Ghost Town.

We became miners on the second day on a tour bus. We were the youngest group of tourists in the bus. It seems that Kalgoorlie only attracts the old while forgets about the young. The young tourists who came to Kalgoorlie are usually school children from Perth getting drunk in the hotels!! There are no dance clubs in the city, traditional bars catering mainly to miners are plenty. One of the bars in my hotel looked pretty hip actually. Lets not digress further. We went to many places in the city and its good that we are on a tour bus to understand the city better. It still costs a fortune though.

Our first stop is the Royal Flying Doctor Headquarters, it is used to help patients in the remote parts of Australia. We visited the famous KPMG Superpit Mine in Kalgoorlie. It was basically a whole carved artificially by giant tractors and bulldozers which looks like ants when viewed from the top. It was an amazing sight, you should never count yourself being to Kalgoorlie unless you visit the mine. We got trivial facts about buildings in Kalgoorlie which are not really important unless you are a history buff. There is even an school catering to aboriginal children and they still eat grubs in school trips. At last, we took a photo top at President Hoover's house. It was just an ordinary house with 'character' and nothing special about it.

In Boulder, a town minutes away from Kalgoorlie is the town hall. The town hall had faux curtain which was actually painted by hand. it was said to be the biggest of its kind. Kalgoorlie 'scores' point for that piece of art. It was an entertainment center where theater predominates the scene in the bygone eras. The town hall hosted an AC/DC concert many years ago. It is depicted on the posters inside. Can't be bothered to take photo of that poster, only AC/DC or 'Bogan-Rock' fans will be interested. Kalgoorlie is also famous for its brothels, a place where the rich miners relieve their 'lack' of love. It should be noted that the city have an unproportionate number of males compared to females.

The last place that we visited is the old Hannans tourist mine. It is basically a disused mine that is not profitable and big enough. The place have a 'wild wild west' feel and a photogenic place. I actually recommended my brother to make a movie there. It seems like a place where the Americans dump their Hollywood props. Everything there is old, weathered and rusty, but thats what makes it a beautiful place. We took the underground mines tour but I am too tired to listed to the tour guide. The tour guide had an 'outback' Australian Accent which is simply incomprehensible for me.

Overall, Kalgoorlie is still a great place to visit. I wish I have more time to visit Lake Ballard. It is a hidden destination worth discovering. It is a place where photographers and film directors would like to visit. The place itself is like a giant prop to me with all the 'wild wild west' style houses and mines. Historians and avid travellers would love it as well. However, if you want to find something luxurious there, you found the wrong place buddy, its an OUTBACK TOWN!!! A REAL OUTBACK TOWN!! A place with all the Australian stereotypes only without the kangaroos.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

More money comes with great responsibility!!

I am now extremely broke and my spending level is just not sustainable with very few money left for acceptable dining. I was wondering why I was so broke and what is wrong with me. When I was in Singapore with $200 pocket money every week. I have the money to eat good food every week yet I have all the money for tithes and even building fund for the church. I feel that having that much money is enough to sustain me for the whole month.

Sometimes, I am extremely amazed of me spending control when I was in secondary school. Now, I got far more money than that and yet I feel poor. There are just too much to spend and yet it never feels enough. The 1st important thing that I learned today is more money comes with greater responsibility. If you have more money, It doesn't actually mean that you are richer. I befriended a man on a street complaining about the money given by the government for the homeless people. I asked him how much each of the got and he told me they got $600 each. Wow!! thats a lot of money for the average Indonesian but it is simply not enough for the homeless people to live in Australia.

I was lucky enough to have an increase in allowances at the end of this year. If people ever ask me how much it improved my life. I could say to them that it is the same as ever before. As I said earlier, this general rule seems to apply to everyone. It could be God's plan to flatten the income distribution or our own negligence with money, I am not sure which one is right. Most probably the second one is right. The rule is that more money comes with greater responsibility. With more money, more reasons to spend money naturally and MAGICALLY comes to you and there are much more temptations. It is your ability to resist the temptations and power to say 'NO' that makes the big difference. With more money, people have the tendency to spend more freely without much thoughts.

For example, you have heard stories of people winning millions from lottery and ended up more broke as every before. They even said that winning the lottery is the worst thing that could happen to them. Perhaps the best way to control lottery winnings is to try keeping it unknown and keep a normal yet sustainable life. This could be the exact reason why I am so broke. This is a hearthbreaking lesson that I learned so far not to take my money for granted and wish that you, my friends, do not make the same mistake as me again..

Friday, January 23, 2009

Dear Dairy..

Dear Dairy.. You are my best friend.. But I havent been talking to you for such a long time... This is the most 'confused' part of my life.. I don't know what to do?

Now, I havce to juggle between looking for a house, uni and work.. Its really shit actually.. Especially having to work on monday night which is a public holiday and don't get extra pay for it.. I hate public holidays!! I always do...

My friend do tell me to quit my job, but i was thinking, is it ethical for me to quit my job just after 2 weeks.. Well, Despite the low pay, I have to discipline myself this time to break that precedent.. My last job lasted only 2 weeks.. Got fired after that.. FUCK!!

I don't want to quit my job after 2 weeks again.. Its not really a good sign.. The Problem is that I am a very superstitious person.. I don't want something to become a habit and create a precedent.. Maybe I don't agree with some of the company's policy.. But I have to stick to the status quo.. Maybe I quit after my summer holidays.. I don't know!!!!

I learned alot of things from work though.. Like time management and costumer service.. I think its quite useful for my life and my future work life.. I take it as my training for the future.. Everyone did their training first in the hotel anyway (For hospitality students) and just take it as just like that.. These 'hospitality ' students don't even get paid for their jobs.. Perhaps I shouldnt complain abou my low pay...

For Uni, ARRGHH!!! Why is it so hard to find good books and resources for my report.. Useless finding them though.. I don't know what to do now.. God!! Please help me in this matter!!!

For the house, I am still deciding which one to choose.. Either a cheaper 418 apartment with more noise but cheaper or 811 which is quieter but much more expensive.. Its quite a tough decision.. Especially when both apartments looks grand and appetising to my eyes.. In comparison with my old house...

Well, thats it for my blog.. Dairy.. Thanks for listening to my story... Byezzz

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

My Dearest Stefan

Dear Stefan,

Can you get serious over your work!!
You should know it by now that you are so busy!!
Heaps of assignments and Spring Feast on Thursday!!
But look at what you are doing now!!
writing this blog and pracically destroting yourself!!
Can you be more serious over your work!!!
Can you do yourself that favour!!
Maybe, you need some 'puffies' outside before working again...
But Whatever!!
'Puffies' don't help you in the Long term
All you have to depend on is self-motivation..
You promised yourself that you wanna take honours!!
but wheres the action!!
Now, get going and do you work!!
Stefan, I know that you are capable of doing this!!
You are smart, you know it yourself!!
NOW GO!!!!

Yours sincerely,
Myself

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Truth and misconceptions

There are many truth and misconceptions of clubbing which many people are not aware of...

Misconecptions:

1) People go there to pick up gals and bringig them back home.. Pick up gals.. Nah.. Not everyone do this kind of stuff (including me).. it is only the superconfident and raunchy individuals who would do such a thing!! It is not that easy folks!! The image of clubbers has been tarnished by the press and media so be aware of this misconcepton as the majority of them are not like this..

2) It is a happy place.. People go there to look for happiness and and they feel really empty inside.. This could be explained by the number of fights and drugs inside these places...

3) If I go there.. I will become soo addicted.. Not everyone likes loud music and chaotic places...

4) Going there means being exposed to drugs and alcohol.. Drugs and alohol consumption depend on peer pressure, not because of clubs!!


Truth

1) People go there because of peer pressure!! You won't go there yourself unless you are extremely depressed!!

2) It is dangerous!!! Yes it is dangerous!! Look at my last blog...

3) It affects your image and spirituality.. The minority of people still have the old notion that going to clubs are bad (like picking up gals) and may not like you for doing so..

4) You won't be affcted by drugs and alcohol unless you friends are doing so..

Remember:

1) Do whatever you like but don't break the laws!!

Friday, September 19, 2008

Dodgy Night in Melbourne

Just back from holiday...

Geez... i am really exhausted...

Spending my birthday in Melbourne is really cool.. The nightlife is fantastic and the casino is just like Las vegas (Never been there before). However, its rather rough though. I went to this dodgy club in South Melbourne with my friends and the bouncers were really rough!!! geez!! It was pretty crowded though.

We went out to the Casino (Lost $40, DAMN!!!) for awhile and got my hand stamped. When we went back inside, they couldn;t see the stampt and I was thrown out of the club violently. I showed my stampt to the bouncer outside and thrown back inside.

Oh NO!!! I am like a volleyball being thrown back and forth. In the end, i went in though.. YES!!! that happen again.. Certainly, the violence did not just hapen to me. We were so tired and decided to go back home and you guess what!!! We couldn't go out of the club cuz someone was bashed up outside and the paramedics told the bouncer not to let us out.

He was bleeding so badly that there is a possibily of having a permanent damage in his body. I was told that the bouncers are so violent !! Oh NO!!!! The reporters came in and interview people on the scene. It was a dodgy night!!! Dodgy!! Dodgy!! Dodgy!!

You Guess What!!!

I was having lunch with Matt in Footscray and it was on the NEWS!!!

Until now, I am not too sure whether its pure coincidence or violence!!!

Moral of the story: Clubs and bars are not necessarily a happy place.