I want to speak out all my troubles...
but I doubt anyone will listen to me..
HELP ME!!!
I am drowning..
SAVE ME!!!
I am lost..
LISTEN TO ME!!!
I can't speak...
ARRRGHHHHHH!!!!!
FUCK IT!!!
I JUST CAN'T TAKE IT!!!
I thought I am strong... I can handle everything..
in fact, I am really weak..
I say... I don't care..
In fact, I really CARE..
I say... I am smart..
In fact, I can't do anything...
I say... I am a good boy..
In fact, I am actually a really bad boy..
I say... I am really smart at doing something..
In fact, I don't know how to do it...
yes, I have agood future..
In fact, I am feeling empty inside...
yes, I have everything.. (almost)
In fact, I miss something I really important...
yes, I am handsome and cute
In fact, I am just as cute and handsome just like anyone else...
Why am i writing this.. just like someone in the middle of a sinking ship...
nothing spiritual... nothing personal... nothing to do with you..
I bare with THIS PROBLEM for ages... Its only now that I just can't take it...
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Tuesday, August 05, 2008
How to appealing Successfully...
You are logging into the internet to check for exam results..
To your surprise, you realised that you have only 46 marks..
4 more marks to pass and you are truly desperate...
You are an international student and pay higher tuition fee for that particular unit..
You are so depressed and you feel like hitting your lecturer. What you could do is to vent your anger before it gets worse. It could be hitting the wall and make your hand bleed. venting your anger now is so much better than venting it on the email or the lecturer themselves. You could do something you like such as hanging around with your friends and be happy!! Even if its a short period of time, Its still worth it.
Now, you feel much better and ready to take the step the faith to appeal for your result. First of all, pray to God and ask for a positive mindset and energy. Convince yourself that you are able to be successful in the appeal. Believing that you are able to be successful in the appeal is crucial as it affects on how you perform subsequently.
Before appeal, I recommend you to read 'How to make friends and influence people' by Dale Carnegie. this book tells you how to persuade people and I used the methods explained in the book. The most common question here is 'What makes you deserve to get the extra marks in order to pass?'
Being asked that, you need to be honest and tell them what is wrong with the paper but don't overdo it. You should minimise this part as people hate to be wronged. Don't tell them personal problems like failing this unit incurr mehuge financial cost, it has nothing to do with the paper. Yes, I got a friend who said that and apparently not successful in the appeal.
The next thing that you should do is to use the magic words such as thank you, sorry for troubling you, give them some sort of appreciation. Remember, don't be pushy. you should say that you will respect every decision they make. Yes, you should say that to them as it makes them feel better about themselves as they are given enough respect. More like a service recovery after telling them whats wrong.
Lastly, Love that subject and be grateful that the subject really exist and believe that one day the appeal will be successful. Even if you don't believe it, force yourself to believe it every second of your life. Surrender everything to God and BELIEVE THAT IT WILL BE SUCCESSFUL!!!
Yes, you will be successful cuz thats exact what I did!!
I reallly got 46 and nowI got 50 due the appeal. It seems like a big difference but everything is possible!!!
THANK YOU JESUS!!!
To your surprise, you realised that you have only 46 marks..
4 more marks to pass and you are truly desperate...
You are an international student and pay higher tuition fee for that particular unit..
You are so depressed and you feel like hitting your lecturer. What you could do is to vent your anger before it gets worse. It could be hitting the wall and make your hand bleed. venting your anger now is so much better than venting it on the email or the lecturer themselves. You could do something you like such as hanging around with your friends and be happy!! Even if its a short period of time, Its still worth it.
Now, you feel much better and ready to take the step the faith to appeal for your result. First of all, pray to God and ask for a positive mindset and energy. Convince yourself that you are able to be successful in the appeal. Believing that you are able to be successful in the appeal is crucial as it affects on how you perform subsequently.
Before appeal, I recommend you to read 'How to make friends and influence people' by Dale Carnegie. this book tells you how to persuade people and I used the methods explained in the book. The most common question here is 'What makes you deserve to get the extra marks in order to pass?'
Being asked that, you need to be honest and tell them what is wrong with the paper but don't overdo it. You should minimise this part as people hate to be wronged. Don't tell them personal problems like failing this unit incurr mehuge financial cost, it has nothing to do with the paper. Yes, I got a friend who said that and apparently not successful in the appeal.
The next thing that you should do is to use the magic words such as thank you, sorry for troubling you, give them some sort of appreciation. Remember, don't be pushy. you should say that you will respect every decision they make. Yes, you should say that to them as it makes them feel better about themselves as they are given enough respect. More like a service recovery after telling them whats wrong.
Lastly, Love that subject and be grateful that the subject really exist and believe that one day the appeal will be successful. Even if you don't believe it, force yourself to believe it every second of your life. Surrender everything to God and BELIEVE THAT IT WILL BE SUCCESSFUL!!!
Yes, you will be successful cuz thats exact what I did!!
I reallly got 46 and nowI got 50 due the appeal. It seems like a big difference but everything is possible!!!
THANK YOU JESUS!!!
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