reasons not to hate posers...

Poser is derived from the french word poseur which means that a person who pretends to be what he or she is not... just in case you don't know what it means and labelling them without second thoughts especially for kids below 16... labelling people as a poser is really easy but identifying real posers are not easy cuz almost everyone in the subcultural scenes are posers... the only exceptions are those who are the artist themselves or those whose start the fashion trend.. even famous bands could be posers in some sense...

Many people became posers just because they need acceptence and they need friends... All they need is you as a friend!!! Plase don't condemn these people alright... Instead, approach them and really talk to them.. i bet that they wold love to do so and ask them about why they become posers... encourage them not to do so and tell them to be who they are.. thats what friends are all about... perhaps you could get the greatest treasure in your life which are best friends...

there are other posers who are trying to be trendy... but not really fashionable... well, you can't jude these people because its our human nature to wanna be fashionalbe... its natural.. if you aare a punk but if u hate those 'posers' so much... ask yourself why you are behaving and dressing that way... are you also following people who dresses like you, wanna look fashionable, follow their suggested (sometimes terrifying) behaviour and claiming those things as being yourself... if you are, then dun hate these people... chances are.. they also have the same mindset as you...

the other type of posers are usually kids (below 13) who always follow their friends and be like their friends... the reason being that these kids don't really have a developed mindset and still trying to follow them... you can excuse these people... they are still kids after all... just tell them whats right or wrong... but don't condemn them!!!

i am not an emo, i dun dress like one and a self-proclaimed fashion police... but i actually love emo fashion and hairstyle... i personally their they are cool despite what people say... its just that i am not slim enough to dress like one... and dun call me a poser... its just what i like...

However, some exceptions applies... they are those selfish and corrupted people who tries to be popular and hang out with all the popular kids and be real posers.. and start dressing like them and their styles... You can give them an smack in their face for abandoning you and tell them to FUCK OFF!!! They are the worst posers ever... if you are their friends... don't be angry... they just lose their greatest treasure which is you... it means that your so-called friend is not your friend...

but no matter what, labelling people posers is very childish!!!

Fashionalbe you!!!

For guys... i think wearing brown checkered polo shirt and black pants is a bad idea for you... wear it with a light-colour blue or a slightly darker jeans... i think it would look nice on you... but anyway... i dun like brown checkerd polos... i saw it once before and its so ugly... and dun wear black with brown... especially if its dark brown... it once looks so horrendous and it did made me promise me not to ever wear it again... please dun wear it alrite...

And Guys, don't show off your boxers please especillialy it its pink and full of colours *PUKE*... its one of the worst fashion disaster ever... i dun think gals would be turned on just by seeing your boxers!! i think gals would rather move away form you... Wear something more fashionable but eligible if you wanna be a gal-magnet... not by showing off your underwear... and yeah.. dun put your pants soooo low and again... its ugly!! You could prove me wrong but its just yucky alrite... be a good boy ok!!

For gals... if you are wearing a mini-skirt.. please dun ever wear a very big jacket thats way beyond your size... you should wear a jacket that suits your body size... it just looks disproportionate and unbalanced.. especially if your body is so small and thin...
and gals... how about that big furry boots... geez... better think what to wear before you wear once or it will look really ugly.. seriously.. i cant think of a matching pants or skirt with that furry boots... but for sure... dun wear leggings with it... its ugly!!!

Remember... let me warn you... i am watching over you... dun ever put a photo with a bad dress in firendster or mypace.. i really dun hesitate to be very bitchy and put insulting comments... you can wear something normal and still looks good!! remember... i am doing this for your own good!!!

Kicked out!!!

Oh Geez... I can't believe that I got kicked out of my house today but not really in a literal sense... Its just that the aunty told me that she did not want me in the house anymore and told me to find a house by next sem... she told me that she doesnt wanna go into the homestay business anymore.. She got pretty sick and tired of it..

But i am actually not too sure about the credibility of her argument... Cuz i sometimes found that she lies at times... Telling me that there will be no more open house a few times and only recently that she keeps her promise and i actually want my ex-housemate's room abd did by best to clean my room but i didnt get it... Geeez... It makes me thik that tidying up my room is a pure waste of time...

yeah.. Perhaps i got kicked out of the house for some other reasons.. i dunno.. maybe grudging my for my past misdeeds which didnt happen now... well. i dunno.. now the exams are coming and i still have to find for a new home... oh now!!Well... thats all for today.. byezzz

My stupid past...

As most CCSS people should know... There used to be a high profile case regarding me and this gal you should know who?? When i think back, I can't believe that we are all sooo childish... I really feel like laughing at myself and its's really stupid...

yeah, I bet you won't believe this... I asked her to be my girlfriend one day but in the end i took back my word... You may ask me why?? Cuz i feel so insecure but i really loved her that time.. But i think that it's really stupid... something that doesn't make sense... Normal people like you won't do such a thing... haha...

Yeah, i made her cry at least three times... i once told her not to call me too much and she cried and really got a big fight on the phone... and Wow... i can't believe i am fighting with a gal over da phone... ARRRGHHHH!!!

My relationship is good.. i never visit her when she was doing her prefect duty... what a bad boy i am...

When my relationship with her was super bad.. her friend told me to buy chocolates for her for Valentine's Day cuz she wanted me to do so and i foolishly did... I wrap the merci chocolate on a piece of wraping paper and gave it to her the next day... When i saw her, i quicky gave it to her and her face was kinda furious... i dunno y?? When i asked her at night... she told me why i gave her chocolates... OMG!!! I can't believe that i am fooled... Oh geez... hahahahahahahaha!!!!

Gals, i know you will hate me for writing this...that's why perhaps because of that, maybe she cursed me because of these things... i am doomed not having a g/f for years... not even a b/f... if i found one, the gals are usually sooo below standard... not that i m trying to insult... i juz can't get the gal that i want... they r either so demanding, bad fashion, unkemp hair and very jealous... juz can't take it... And i really got a bad blind date once...

geez.. exams are in two days time and i m writing something stupid like this... can't believe that i am wasting my time... but if that is the situation now... i definitely won't be that foolish..

Narcissist Code of Conduct...

I have seen many so-called 'narcissist' in Indonesia.. i still discover that some peopl eworte that they are a narcissist in their friendster profile... but i was just wondering if they are a real narcissist or not... As a 'narcissist', i really find it more of my own disease rather than a trend... Regularly going to the toilet to look at my self is almost involuntary and taking picture of myself on the street is a norm.. thats the reason why i wanna write some of the code of conducts of being a narcissit which distinguish trend-followers and the 'real' ones...

Narcissist

1) They should love themselves.. thats the whole point of being a narcissist...

2) Totally self-adoring and self-praising... all without shame...

3) Going to the toilet and look at yourself involuntarily...

4) Taking pictures of themselves everywhere...

5) having a camera phone is a neccesity... however, you could be a narcissit without one...

6) very confident when doing certain things like acting funny in front of the whole class...

If you have these factors, that does not mean you are a narcissist

1) Cute poses in front of the camera

2) writing.like.this Or LiKE thIs

3) Telling everyone that you are one... it involves your own emotion and nature...

4) Act adorable and cute while not being yourself...

5) Being fashionable...

Warnings

1) Guys... Please don't kiss the camera... It looks ugly... if a girl or perhaps boy is beside you.. kiss him/her instead... it looks so ugly if you guys do it...